Which is the problem – a straight guy does a “gay” thing – and all gays are tarred and feathered, and a straight guy does a “straight” thing – and it’s just him. But no one thought to blame all the heteros for this – just the one who did the deed. The comments on either site are illuminating and in someways similar and in someways not – but more similar than not.įor good measure, let’s throw in a story on Representative Weiner of NY – – a hetero man waving his you know what, indeed, apparently, at some teenage girl – on Twitter. OK, so the story is that four Wisconsin high school wrestlers apparently harassed a fellow teammate in the locker room – here’s the links to the straight and gay takes such as they are: